Month: October 2021
Many different forms of labia
I truly love that you have this project. Our intimate parts are too often misunderstood as much by us as by men and that makes us self-conscious and full of doubt. Just like penises, there are many different forms of labia and all are unique, none are wrong. Dodson and others have written much on…
Insecure about my large labia
Hello! I’m 22 years old and I’ve always been VERY insecure about my large labia. I have gotten a little better as I have grown but I still feel so… different? I’ve only slept with one person in my life, simply because I am so insecure about my large labia. I have wants and many…
To all the girls with labia shame – it gets better
To all the girls who feel labia shame or embarrassment about the way their vulva looks, I was like you before. I was embarrassed and ashamed of my large labia minora. But now I love my vulva. When I was younger, I used to visit blogs like this to try to boost my confidence. I…
I had labiaplasty surgery
I had labiaplasty surgery in my late 30’s. I had always been self conscious about the appearance of my labia. Now I have gone into menopause and I can tell you that it is causing real issues. I have constant irritation and urinary tract infections that I attribute to having the surgery. I have less…
Insecure about how my vulva looks
For at least 3 years I have been insecure about how my vulva looks. I look at it almost everyday. Some days it’s okay and I have a boost of confidence but some days I feel so ugly. I’m scared to have sex because I think a man will think I’m messy or ugly down…
My vagina is disgusting
I was a late bloomer when it comes to sexuality. I feel like my vagina is disgusting. I lost my virginity way past the average age and didn’t ever masturbate until halfway through college. The only hookups I’ve ever had were drunk and in the dark. My fiancé is an entrepreneur had to move for…
My labia are growing
I’m 23 and over the past year I noticed that my labia are growing longer and getting thicker than before. Is there something wrong with me? The labia can grow and change at different stages in a woman’s life and are not a cause for concern. The most significant changes happen during puberty and pregnancy…
Why are my labia so dark
Why are my labia so dark? I have fair skin all over my body except on my labia which are a brown color. They have been this way for as long as I can remember. What is the cause of this? Is there anything I can do to fix it? Thank you for your submission.…