I hate how my vagina looks
Im a 22 year old lesbian, and i hate how my vagina looks. Ive always hated the way it appears, and a doctor has commented my clitoral hood is larger than average when i was younger. Ive found that my friends who are girls are very judgemental over how vulvas look, with my closest 2…
Uncomfortable with my labia
I’ve been extremely uncomfortable with my labia since I was probably like 13, you know that age where some girls are sexually active but some weren’t. I wasnt. Partly because I wasn’t ready but mostly because I was so embarrassed about my labia. I kept reading about it and I found this blog when i…
I Was Considering Vaginal Bleaching
Hi there. I just wanted to say a big thank you to this blog and everyone who was kind enough to share their insecurities and pictures. I’m 21 and had a lot of insecurity about my colouring down there. I’m ethnic but with light skin, and the colour around my vulva is a brown colour…
Embarrassed about the appearance of my vagina
I have been feeling self concious about my inner labia since I was 11, I am 16 now. Porn has made me feel embarrassed about the appearance of my vagina and I dread at the thought of ever having a sexual partner looking at them. I dislike how they chafe or get pressed against my…
Normal vulva
Sorry, but after seeing these posts, I got upset at how many women feel they have a normal vulva. I have never heard a guy in person say anything about preferring a certain type of vulva. If any guy thinks your vulva is weird, he’s either uneducated, a virgin or inexperienced, and you don’t want…
Large pubic mound
I’m 18 years old and from a young age I’ve had an abnormally large pubic mound. I’ve always been insecure about it because I can’t wear certain types of clothing, since the pubic mound sticks out so much. When I wear tighter pants, two pronounced lines will form between my thighs and the public mound,…
Is my vagina normal?
This project is amazing. Im 24 years old and I’d never been self conscious about my ‘private areas’ or even paid them that much attention to be honest, and I’d never had any complaints or comments from guys. However after meeting a guy who loved us watching porn together I was shocked – none of…
Many different forms of labia
I truly love that you have this project. Our intimate parts are too often misunderstood as much by us as by men and that makes us self-conscious and full of doubt. Just like penises, there are many different forms of labia and all are unique, none are wrong. Dodson and others have written much on…
Insecure about my large labia
Hello! I’m 22 years old and I’ve always been VERY insecure about my large labia. I have gotten a little better as I have grown but I still feel so… different? I’ve only slept with one person in my life, simply because I am so insecure about my large labia. I have wants and many…
To all the girls with labia shame – it gets better
To all the girls who feel labia shame or embarrassment about the way their vulva looks, I was like you before. I was embarrassed and ashamed of my large labia minora. But now I love my vulva. When I was younger, I used to visit blogs like this to try to boost my confidence. I…